Fatherhood is a GIFT –– And a CHALLENGE

Becoming a father is one of the most profound transitions of your life. The moment you hold your baby for the first time, your world expands with new possibilities. You see not only the potential in your child, but also in yourself. Fatherhood is an invitation to grow, to mature, and to step into your role as a man of service.

But let's be real: being a father is really challenging. Your life and your relationship are forever changed. The physical, emotional, and spiritual demands on you are intense. And there is no manual to tell you exactly how to do it. Being a father is serious on the job training.

Too Many Fathers Struggle in Silence

Did you know that 25% of fathers experience postnatal depression at some point in the first year? Many dads assume they’re just tired, that things will get better on their own. But for too many, stress turns into anxiety, frustration, anger, and emotional withdrawal.

Some fathers turn to unhealthy coping mechanisms — excessive drinking, distractions, isolation — only to find themselves more disconnected from their partner, their child, and their own sense of purpose. This can create a downward spiral that affects not only you, but the future of your relationship and your child’s development. 

But this doesn’t have to be your story.

“One of the best things I have done for myself and my little one.”

-S. Therkelsen

You Are Not Alone

We believe that great fathers are not born –– they are made. And they are not made in isolation. The old lone-wolf model is dead. We are stronger when we grow together. When we share our wisdom with each other. When we are there to listen to each other when times are hard.

Who are the Fiercely Loving Fathers? 

We are not just another parenting group. We are a brotherhood of new and experienced dads who understand exactly what you’re going through. We are committed to supporting one another, sharing our experiences, and growing up together. Our Purpose is to become Great Fathers by becoming Better Men.

We want this to be a landmark year for you.  

We want you to learn new things everyday –– about your child, about leading your family, and about yourself. We want you to establish new friendships that you will look back on in 15 years and say, “Yeah, we met in a fathers group when our kids were babies.” We want you to become so knowledgeable that you start mentoring other new dads as they enter the group. We want you to know that look in your partner's eyes –– that look of respect and admiration for the man and the father you have grown into. And we want you to experience the sweet delight of family-life and share those moments with the brothers in your new community. 

Fathering is the most profound journey of our lives. Let's become the very best men and fathers we can be.

Together, we can have the best year ever.

“A great experience for me…made me feel more confident as a father. ”

-J. Sedlak

What You’ll Get Inside Our Community:

EXPECTANT FATHERS

✅ A Preparing for Fatherhood eBook and audio course 
✅ A Library of Resources including: a Pre-birth Master Checklist, a Preparing the Nursery guide, a sample Birth Plan, a Preparing Your Birth-Bag Checklist, a Post-Partum Care Plan, a New Fathers Self-Care Plan, a guide to Better Infant Sleep, and the eBook Things I Wish I Knew Before I Became A Father 

ALL FATHERS

✅ Daily Reflection Prompts & Polls – Stay engaged, self-aware, and connected to your growth as a father.
✅ A robust library of audio and video content on everything from attachment to mindfulness practices to creating a vision for your family.
✅ Live Weekly Presentations & Discussions – Covering essential topics like dealing with Whining, Tantrums, and Tears, balancing work and family life, supporting your partner, and managing stress.
✅ Expert Guest Lecturers – Learn from professionals on everything from child development to infant sleep strategies to communication methods that keep your relationship strong and healthy.
✅ A Strong Support Network – Connect with other fathers, share your struggles, ask for support, and gain insight from those who have been there before.
✅ A Safe Space to Be Real – No judgment. No competition. Just honest conversations with men who understand.

Become the Father 
Your Family Deserves

Join Now

Your infant and your partner are relying on you to step fully into your role as a dad. But the journey of fatherhood is not meant to be walked alone. We need each other in order to grow into really great Fathers.

The Fiercely Loving Fathers Community is here to help you navigate this journey with strength, big-heartedness, and encouragement. Together, we will redefine what it means to be a father in the 21st century.

What Other Fathers Are Saying

B. Kelly

S. Therkelsen

J. Sedlak

I am Chris White MD – a Pediatrician, parent educator, and father of two boys. I co-wrote Mindful Discipline: A Loving Approach to Setting Limits and Raising an Emotionally Intelligent Child. I have been involved in mens work, meditation, and various somatic practices for over 30 years. And I especially enjoy helping fathers deepen their Presence, expand their Hearts, and grow into men of Service.

“Dr. White is an invaluable resource.”

B. Kelly

FAQs

What if I already feel overwhelmed and don’t think adding another thing to my life is wise?

I get it. You feel super-maxed out and this would be another thing, right? But here is the thing: Spending a little time each week with people who get you, who know what your struggles are, who have been there before and have transcended your current predicament is a game changer. Just 30 minutes a week of offloading your worries and frustrations can make your life feel so much more spacious. It's something like connection + honest sharing + deep listening = Restoration. You think it's about time. But it's actually about the perception of time and the way stress distorts and pressurizes situations. It's not a matter of "Should I add another thing to my busy life?" But rather, "Which things should I prioritize given that my time is precious?"  Support for new fathers is essential for the health of the family. 

Isn’t $49 per month a lot of money?

As fathers, we need to be strategic about our spending. We have a whole family relying on us now. So absolutely make sure you only spend money on things of value, things that make not only your life better, but the lives of your entire family better as well. But ask yourself, “How much do I spend on coffee or tea each month?” A daily coffee habit is more than $49 each month, and the ROI is way less than being part of a community of fathers who are committed to personal growth. If you truly can’t find the extra $1.67 per day, consider the value of 2 other habits you have that cost this much or more. And then ask yourself, "Am I ready to invest in my family’s future? Or are my comfort habits more important than becoming the man my family deserves?" Invest wisely.

Where would I even start?

Start simply by signing up and having the experience. The best way to know if something is for you is to experience it for yourself. And when you enter our community, you will be welcomed by other dads and be shown around the community space through a series of videos. Then just kick back and see how our daily questions or polls get you thinking about your experience as a father. We men are often so busy taking care of business that we forget to lift our heads up and reflect on our lives. But when a question arrives in your inbox saying, “What was one challenge that you overcame today?” or “What is one quality of great fathers that you want to embody today?”, it can help you feel engaged in that path of growth that you are already on. You are more conscious of it. You are participating in the journey of your life purposefully rather than being swept along by the waves of circumstance and overwhelm. Reflect, gain insights, and then share your wisdom with the group. 

How frequently are there groups where I can ask my fathering questions?

We have a group every week run by either myself (Chris) or my partner Shereef. Each group we will present a short topic –– consider it food-for-thought. And then we open up the floor to hear your reflections and answer any questions you might have. We occasionally will even do some live coaching for any man who wants that level of engagement. And then every month we have a guest speaker come educate us on various topics like soothing a colicky infant, sleep training, or how to set boundaries without being a tyrant. Bring any questions you have.

Do I have to participate in the groups?

No. As fellow dads we get it –– life is FULL! The great thing about this community is that you can participate at the level that suits your specific needs. There will be times when all you can handle is listening to one of our fathering pearls –– short 2-4 minute audio reflections on fathering –– on your ride into work. But there will be other phases of life where you will listen to our longer course sessions –– 7-20 minute audio clips –– out on a hike with your dog and receive mythic perspectives on fathering or learn about attachment or your child’s development. And if in any particular week you need more support or contact with other fathers going through similar challenges, come join us in our fathers group. The great thing about this community is we all flex and flow with one another. No pressure. We are always here when you need us.

What if I did not see my question answered here?

Email me at [email protected] and I would be happy to answer any questions you might have.